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and Found

When we arrived in Rochester on the coach I wrote this:

Unloading the coach and moving the unloaded stuff into the apartment was time consuming and frustrating. We are prone to loosing things from time to time, but a pound of ground beef? Yup someplace in the coach, the car or the apartment there is a one pound package of ground beef slowly decomposing – gross! 

Today we returned to the coach to run the generator for a while as is necessary to keep things working. As I reached into the Jeep console for the keys I realized the usual keyring was missing. I must have decided they did not need to go to Canada and wait around there for two weeks and taken them into the apartment, Baad Idea. I did have a key to get into the coach, just not to open any of the compartments to turn on the chassis batteries which is necessary to open the slides, and other things.

As soon as I opened the door I knew not everything was wonderful. My nose led me to the refrigerator which stood with doors partially open for storage. Looking inside I found the missing pound of ground beef, or its decomposed remains. I cannot imagine how we left that in the refrigerator after we turned it off, cleaned it and prepared it for storage. I know that I had looked in there several times just to be sure. I have the drawers and shelf in the apartment to clean up. I will plan a return trip in the next day or two to put everything in order. YUCK!

After 24 years of RVing I found a new way to make things miserable in the coach. I do not want to imagine what my next RV problem will be.

Bookend – Home

Carol and I began our marriage travels with a five week trip to Europe starting in England. After 60 years it doesn’t seem likely that we will be doing any more extended travel overseas. I’m not ruling it out, but there is still plenty to see and do in the US and Canada. We have traveled in 67 countries on six continents. We have been to the top of Tibet, over 12,000 feet, and to the depth of the Dead Sea, about 5,700 feet below sea level, as far north as Fairbanks Alaska and as far south as Cape of Good Hope South Africa. We have driven across the United States more than 24 times in our motorhome and been from the Mexican border to the Canadian Border – and beyond. We are not done, we plan to drive back to California in the Fall and do some other road trips this summer.  

Back to the trip we just completed. We had a day to walk around in Edinburgh and our hotel was just steps away from George IV Bridge which crosses to the area of the Castle. It was a warm sunny day!! and we strolled up toward the Castle area. We never made it since the steps were daunting. We did climb several steps and had two wonderful stops. We found the Writers Museum in Lady Stair’s house (that was her name) in Lady Stairs Close up some steps and it had three main floors covering the lives of Robert Louis Stevenson, Sir Walter Scott and Robert Burns.  We spent over an hour there taking in all the information about the writers and the museum. We moved on from there to the National Museum on the way back to our hotel. This may be one of the most confusing museums we have ever been in. The range of material from modern medicine to ancient sculptures with a stop along the way for early steam engines is confusing enough then have more than three interconnected buildings with lifts that go to alternate floors and this tired couple were glad to find our way out after an hour. We concluded the day with dinner at a Spanish Tapas restaurant  before collapsing for a 4:30 AM wake up to be in our taxi at 5:30. 

I will spare you the description of Edinburgh Airport, it may be the worst we have experienced. The flight to Toronto was smooth and comfortable. Our car was immediately available at Park and Fly and we drove to Mitch’s house in the usual Toronto traffic. Carol was adamant we not drive home after the long flight and 5 hour time zone change. Mitch welcomed us to his house, although he was not there when we arrived, it was a work day. We had time with him late afternoon and in the morning – THANK YOU MITCH – before beginning the drive home. 

First stop after Toronto was Hamilton to visit Aunt Dorothy (known as Dodo to us). One does not drive by the home of a centenarian without stopping in. After a brief (30 minute) wait to cross into Lewiston NY we faced a dilemma. Southern route on the Thruway, Middle route on NY 104  or lakeside route, the slowest. After lunch in Lewiston, we opted for the slow route along the lake. Just west of the western end of the Lake Ontario Parkway we found an Amish farm stand we have visited in the past and stop to top up with fresh fruit and vegetables. We arrived at the apartment at 4 PM, a mere six hours for a three hour trip. That would be par for us.

OMG 5 Days Have Passed

Tony picked us up a the hotel on the 20th to head through the Cotswolds to Lygon Arms in Broadway. I suppose I could recite the names of the towns and villages we passed through and stopped to visit. I am not sure I remember the name of the place we stopped for a pub lunch. It was a glorius day and we settled into Lygon Arms like finding our way home, even though we were only there for a night 60 years ago. Upon taking a look at the rooms we had then we were grateful they were not available. The bathroom was out the door down some steps and back up somemore steps. Our “suite” had a small livingroom a sizeable bathroom and a nice sized bedroom. It is in the sort of old part of the main building – only 200 years old. The adjacent section of the building is about 600 years old. 

We dined in the main dining room where we were to have breakfast for four mornings. The food was very good and we retired to get some rest with no immediate wakeup call since we had nothing planned until 1:30. Yechiel and Miriam Katz arrived just as we were preparing to sit down for High Tea to mark our 60th year. We had a lovely time with champaign and drinks and plenty to eat from the three tiered trays. 

Backtracking: As we walked the town in the morning we heard interesting noises and noted a crowd gathered just down the street from the hotel. A group of Morris Dancers had claimed some space on the green and were dancing.

They really weren’t sideways, but I haven’t yet figured out how to rotate the image – sorry.

We strolled and relaxed and eventually had dinner and prepared for another busy day. We started out going to Stratford-upon-Avon to tour Shakespeare’s Birthplace and Ann Hathaway’s home. After lunch we returned to the hotel for some R&R to return to Stratford-Upon-Avon for dinner and a play at the Royal Globe Theater. The play was Merry Wives of Windsor and a wild bunch they are. The setting was sort of modernized and the dress was mostly modern but the script was pure Shakespeare – well there some modern influences. If you know the play you know it for a very funny story and they played it for all it was worth. We were hysterical much of the time. Yechiel and Miriam Katz were with us in the morning and joined us for theater. 

The following day we set out for The Lakes District with Nicky driving and guiding. We toured and drove and toured and ate and drove until eventually we arrived at Gilpin, a fantastic small hotel in the Lakes District with two superb kitchens. Our room overlooked the front drive and the gardens to the side. Our planned schedule included dinner at “Scene” an Aisan Fusion retaurant with delightful options and wonderful seasoning. The next day included a brief boatride on Lake Windermere to recapture the experience and a driving tour of the Lake District. Nicky is both a wonderful guide and competent driver. We circled the District returning to Gilpin for dinner in “Source” which is their Michelin 1 Star restaurant. We got to the table about 6:30 and were finished at 9, and that was the 6 course meal and only two glasses of wine. I will not bore you with the course by course description (even if I could). Suffice it to say portions were small, spacing was relaxed and flavors and presentation were phenominal. 

I’ll stop here. We are now in Edinburgh having driven all day along Hadrian’s Wall. 

Who’d Have Thought

When Daniel our guide picked us up at Roseate Hotel, Bath, one of the fist questions he asked was typical “Where are you from?” When we responded, “Rochester”, his immediate response was “Henrietta”!! We were dumfounded! Then he pointed out our hotel is on Henrietta Street and the row of town houses extending up the hill were known as Henrietta with Henrietta Mews extending off through the row. The wife of the family that came into money was named Henietta and apparently she was the strong force. As their wealth grew they invested in land in US and founded the town of Henrietta, just outside Rochester. I will need to look up more details to verify and extend this story, but Daniel’s immediate response to Rochester and the adjacent town of Henrietta sure started out day off in a grand manner. 

He saw to it that we saw most of the sights of Bath from great vantage points and told us the legend of the founding of the town some time in BCE. He left us at lunch and we went on to tour the Roman Baths and make our way around town and back to the hotel. The baths have been the center of the city since its founding well before the Romans appeared. The Romans found the hot water a wonder in the cold wet land. They are the only hot springs in England! They built a complete set of baths with all the typical luxeries found in baths throughout the Empire only here they did not need to bring fuel to boil the water. After the Romans left, the baths were ignored for many years and fell into ruin. People still came to “take the waters” which are said to heal everything, but it wasn’t until the Victorian era that they were rebuilt for the use of the upper classes. Once again they fell into disuse and only recently have new baths been built to take advantage of the hot springs.

Today’s adventure was a tour of 1 Royal Crescent Museum which is located in an end unit of the huge crescent. It is fitted out with furnishing from the 1776 era and the family, represented in audio and videos, are going about living life in Bath. One son is an officer in the British Army on Long Island, the eldest is a wastrel gambling and drinking and the daughters are older teenagers entering society (17 and 19). We were intrigued with this structure since our home in Rochester for 17 years was a much smaller structure built along the same lines as the Royal Crescent including being very tall. This was a bucket list item for us for many years.

More tomorrow as we travel though the Cotswolds ending in Broadway at the Lygon Arms where we stayed 60 years ago on our Honeymoon.

 

Days 3 & 4 over the top

After breakfast at the Buttery we took an Uber to the Royal Opera House for our back stage tour. It was a grand tour that had us on the green path through the stage area to avoid the moving stage wagons while they were preparing for the afternoon perfomance. We also were taken into the props room, and walked by the wigs, makeup and costume areas. The stage area had enough space for three full sets. By the time we were done the doors were open and the shops were busy.

Rather than fight the lines for food we ventured out into the alternating sun and rain where we found a nice little shop with decent small food to satisfy our need for lunch. 

We went back to our room for some rest in preparation for theater. Dined at Tozi, just a few minutes walk from the theater, excellent foood and service. Then on to Hamilton.

Nobody told us that this was the last performance in a 7 year run! Much of the audience knew and the cast were over the top. We have seen versions of Hamilton, but always on a screen at home and the bigggest audience was with Dan’s family making us a total of 6. The energy of a full house made this a very different experience. We were in tears. Being in a British audience cheering on the Rebels added to the power of the show.  

On to day 4. We went to the Imperial War Museum, Churchills War rooms. These are the rooms where Churchill and his staff retreated to a sub basement that was never intended to be inhabited or to be bomb proof, but from where they fought the war for 4 years. Many of the rooms, especially in the Map Room are just as they were left after Germany’s surrender. The satff walked out, locked the doors and there was no reason to return even to pick up three cubes of sugar secreted in a drawer. We spent a long time there and surfaced for lunch and some rest.

As I write we are packing to be picked up by our driver to visit Stonehenge on our way to Bath.

London Days 1 and 2

Our flight was uneventful and all the transfers worked as planned. 

The traffic coming in from Heathrow was as expected, hideous. I’ll take LA rush hour – At least you are not driving on the left although what we were doing could hardly be called driving. 

Our check in time was noon and we arrived at the hotel at 9. In a totally zombie state we set off to reconnoiter the area around our hotel – Lime Tree Hotel. Our first objective was to walk to Sloan Square Underground Station as that would be our most likely jumping off place for our tours. Along the way, we passed Victoria Coach Station and found a stand with a young man selling SIM cards so I have a new temporary phone number 07445719345 while in England (and Scotland) or you could send email.

Eventually we got our room and had a chance to clean up and rest a bit before taking a cab to the Shard View. This may be the tallest building in the UK or maybe even Europe at 72 stories. There is an excellent 360 degree view of London, weather permitting. If I show you the pictures you will be none the wiser, its a large city with a large river winding through it. Having had a large breakfast and a reasonable lunch we elected to skip dinner and get some sleep.

Day 2 we had breakfast at the Buttery in our hotel and caught a cab to the Royal Globe Theater for a “Behind the Scenes” Tour. It was more like sitting in the theater while a very talented tour guide tells us the history and stories about the theater and Shakespear. Carol and I got a bit of actual behind the scenes as she elected to get a wheelchair and part of where we went was not accessible and a manager took us very much behind the scenes to access a large elevator intended to move props.

We left the theater (or should that be theatre) for a short walk to the Tate Modern. We spent a couple of hours in the galleries and had lunch in their lovely cafe. From there we set out to take the Underground back to the hotel, but we were both so tired I caught a cab for the return.

Cabs are PRICEY! They seem to be running from 25 to 40 pounds depending on traffic. Meals are pricey. However there are no tips. Restaurants add in from 10% to 15% for service and cabs do not have a means to tip on their epay system. 

The hotel is small. Our room is compact. It is comfortable and if we were not used to our RV I think we might be unhappy. It is clear that at some point they took a nice sized room and built a bathroom into a part of it. It is on the first floor and is the first room one comes to after leaving the lobby, two steps! The staff are very pleasant and helpful. The Buttery is an attached restaurant serving breakfast and lunch. It is not included in the room rate. We are in Belgravia which is adjacent to West End which is a high end part of London the theaters are all nearby.

Today we came back from the gallery and fell asleep for a couple of hours. When we woke it was too late to book a restaurant so we took a walk down Ebury Street to Chucs where had immediate seating and a delightful meal. Carol had a bowl of vegan pea soup and I had a chicken dish. Also some Irish Whisky – West Cork. 

We walked back to the room and are making preparations for tomorrow witha tour of the behind the scenes of the Royal Opera and seeing Hamilton in the Victoria Palace Theatre. We will fill the afternoon with a gallery or museum and maybe a nap.

Honeymoon Reprise

60 years ago a very young couple left Rochester for the first of what has turned out to be many trips away from home. One of the the most memorable stays on that five week trip to UK, the Scandavian countries, Netherlands, Belgium, and France was the small town of Broadway in the Cotswalds, not far from Stratford-upon-Avon.  We stayed in a very old Inn, Lygon Arms in the oldest part, built in the mid 1500’s. We have dreamed of returning ever since.  Our travels have taken us many places, but never back to England for more than an overnight in London.

Our anniversary has fallen during Rochester International Jazz Fest for many years and we have celebrated on Jazz Street every year. We decided that out 60th needed to be something different and it had to include a return to Lygon Arms in Broadway. 

Tomorrow, Wednesday June 12, we will drive toToronto to catch a flight to London to begin the repeat of the UK  ortion of that first trip. We will not be able to repeat the return trip since the Queen Mary has been out of service, tied up in Long Beach for many years.

We are very much still in travel mode.

A Day in the Life

 Today was supposed to be a simple day. Get in the car and drive to Tonawanda to pick up the coach from its most recent repairs. Connect the car to the coach with the new towbar (another story) drive back home and store the coach. Oh, we had made a plan to have a tintype made of us by our neighbor at 2:30 and then to go to the Rochester Philharmonic Concert with the Perlmans. 

Our departure from Rochester was a bit later than planned, this set us back 30 minutes. There seemed to be enough slack to make it up. Any hope of that was broken by a 20 minute traffic delay on 62 approaching Tonawanda. Still hoping to recover enough time to be back for a late lunch.

We arrived at Colton RV and there was GeeWhiz on the front line washed and ready to go, or was it. I went to setup the new towbar from BlueOx and it seemed to be installed upside down on the coach. This seemed to be an easy fix which, after complaining to the shop, I set out to correct. Afterall I have done this many times for myself over the years. However this turned into a Escher puzzel. I could get the bars rightside up (lettering and bolts as appropriate) but the portion that afixes to the coach was now upside down.   A tech appeared and said oh no its upside down, then he looked again and realized it had come from the factory assembled wrong. He went back into stock and pulled another new one which he mounted and the lettering was rightside up the bolts were in the right direction too. 

I lay this screwup to the BlueOx factory. I have to assume Colton put their most junior tech on the towbar install and no one would expect it to be misassembled from the factory.

Our drive home on the NYThruway – I90 – was delayed for a vehicle fire on the road which had us crawling at 2 mph for 10 miles or more. We parked the coach, refilled the tank of the car, and had it washed arriving home about 3:30. Cancelling the tintype shoot opened up enough time to eat something and write this before preparing for the concert.

Brown ’64

We have been celebrating 60 years since graduating from college. Carol and I were not able to share our graduations 60 years ago since they were concurrent, mine in Providence and hers in Buffalo. That was the last time we were separated before beginning our 60 years of marriage. 

This weekend has been a mix of lots of food and drink and lots of trying to remember long lost relationships with classmates and freshman dorm mates. It is truly amazing how many freshman residents of Littlefield, a smallish animal house, are gathered here. Out of 41 registered attendees I am sure of at least 6. Today Carol and I attended a Literary Salon at which four alumni who have recently published books talked about their path to publishing and about their books.: Elise Hart Kipness a former sports reporter; Dominique Shelton Leipzig, a lawyer practicing in the arena of AI: Mark Cecil, a journalist now story teller and Jaime Green, an editor venturing into a work that crosses the line between fact and science fiction. I will be reading their books over the next couple of months as I find them in electronic format. 

In the afternoon our class had its own seminar with speakers on covid, living with Parkinsons and being the first woman executive producer at CBS working with Cronkite, Rather and Kuralt. It was a fascinating 90 minutes. The challenges these people faced were severe.

All of the speakers we heard attributed their success in their striving to the learnig they received here at Brown. The authors all graduated under the Open Curriculum which was implemented in 1967 which enabled them to freely wander out of their supposed areas of specialization and venture into other fields without risk to their GPA since there is no GPA when most courses are taken Pass/Fail. I have not even scratched the surface of the depth of Open Curriculm as practiced at Brown. 

So much of the Brown campus is vertically challenging for these older legs. I did not remember all the lesser hills being as significant as they are now. Just walking across any of the quads results in a noticeable change of elevation. Of course it being a college campus with thousands of “extra” people there is lots of walking just to get from place to place. We haven’t brought the car to campus yet depending on Lyft to save the hunt for a parking place and the time spent negotiating unexpected road closures. This morning acces to the dining hall (the Ratty) was blocked from all directions. Our Lyft driver spotted a golfcart with a driver and asked him to bring us the rest of the way, which he did. She got an extra tip. Tonight Jonathan Kagan gave us a lift back to the hotel. He had his car near our dinner and there was very little traffic. 

Tomorrow is the commencement walk though the Van Wickle Gates which will be open outward for the only time in the year. The classes walk though the gate in the order they graduated so we will be among the first through the gate. Then we get to stand and greet the later graduates until the class of 2024 takes their first walk out through the gate. 

The WHOLE Trip

In the past I have been asked for a map of the trip. I always figured that most people could enter our locations into Google Maps or Earth and see where we were. However I thought today I would show you the entire trip directly from the planning software I have been using for several years. Here is a link to the WHOLE Trip. I could also give you Google’s version of where we have been Timeline. It is almost as good as the actual map. 

Facts: Miles driven 3,225. Diesel Fuel Purchased 416.59 Gallons – we started with about 3/4 of a tank (100 gallon tank capacity) and topped off in Pembroke NY. That came to $1,324. The inevitable question is how many miles per gallon – 7.74 but we burned probably 11 gallons in the generator. Cost per mile is $.41 not bad for moving almost 40,000 pounds across the country.  Maybe the most shocking number is what we paid for campgrounds – $1,075 and we stayed for free for 7 nights. We averaged $51 per night in campgrounds. That includes 4 nights in an Elks Lodge for $35/night. This is where inflation is the most visible. It is about double what we might have seen 10 years ago. 

I was tempted to compare it to traveling by car, but I don’t have real facts and travel by plane is a very different category of travel.