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Wrapping Up – one

I know, I haven’t even written it and I know it won’t be the last, I think.

Today, Thursday April 25, had one planned activity. That was to finally see Fallingwater, the country house designed for the Kaufman family by FLWright.  It is a mere 3 miles from where we are staying. It is 90 years from where we are today. The Kaufman’s were a couple who founded and owned Kaufman Department Store. Those of us from Rochester may remember when they bought Sibley, Lindsey and Curr, know to most of us as “Sibley’s” They had one son who never married and had they had no descendants. 

As older people ourselves we wonder what will become of our “stuff” and how to downsize to relieve the burden from our children. The Kaufman’s had a great idea. They had built a marvelous house and a great art collection and they left the entire estate to a not-for profit to manage as a museum, they also left $5 million in the 40’s to maintain it and its 5000 acres. We get the benefit of that largesse. A house built in the 30’s that looks in many regards like it was built yesterday (without conforming to current code). Railings on a deck too low for any standard, so Mrs Kaufman could see over them without getting out of bed. Stairways with no hand rails. Passage ways too narrow for easy passage and so many more. 

The sound of the creek wherever you are on the property permeates everywhere. As soon as you open one of the many windows it fills the space. Here is Carol leaning over one of the many patio walls above Bear Run.  This is just 8 seconds.

We concluded by walking to a viewpoint to get this classic picture: Well maybe it will upload by the time I post.  Try this link for excellent pictures

A cup of fancy coffee drink set us up for the brief ride back to the coach to begin prepartions for a less than 4 hour travel day and another day arriving in Rochester and moving out of the coach for the summer. We need our luggage, already in the car and the perishables and the electronics for the first trip. 

I’ll fill in the details in a later post.

Some Sight Seeing

We left Lee in Columbus and were only two easy days to Rochester, but we had no desire to arrive before the end of April. There were a couple of places on our bucket list that had always been out of the way, out of reach because of lack of time. We have had an affinity for Frank Lloyd Wright homes and I mentioned earlier we decided to tour Falling Water and Kentuck Knob. The easiest place to camp for these turns out to be a Yogi Bear Jellystone Park. We have often stayed at one called Shangri La by the Creek between Rochester and Charlottesville and know how busy they can be in season. Late April in PA is not in season. 

This place is huge, with half mile between entrance and exit on the main road. We are located next to the Ranger Station (!). When I was exploring I found the golf cart rental center, there must be 100 golf carts waiting to be rented. There are 3 swimming pools. The closest large city is Pittsburgh which is an hour and a quarter away. 

The one sight we hadn’t planned on is Flight 93 National Memorial, about an hour away over mountain roads. We went there this morning. The field in Shanksville is just that an open field. If Flight 93 had not crashed there, it would still be just another open field. 

The Visitor Center was crowded with 3 school buses of children for whom this is ancient history and older people remembering what they were doing when the first plane hit the World Trade Center. There are memorabilia, and there are voices, the recordings of the phone calls made from the plane in the 34 minutes after it was taken left me in tears, again. We did not walk out to the memorial itself we did make a final stop at the Tower of Voices. It is 93 feet tall and has 40 large wind chimes, all different voices.

In the afternoon we went to Kentuck Knob a wonderful Unsonian home by FLW. The original owner lived in it for over 30 years and the current owner converted it into a museum with many of his own collected items in the house and. It was delightful visit with ice cream made by the dairy the orginal owner owned in the gift shop. The road is not suitable for any RV. The house is built into the top of the Knob.  For better pictures than I could take go here.

More tomorrow,

Along the Way

The Kansas City Gangster Tour was a lot of fun. Lots of mostly factual history of the period from 1920 to the mid 30’s. The bus ride never pauses between the dialogue from the lead gangster and the driver who is party to the action along with the interactive video. The only time anyone left the bus was when the “guide” got off to reenact a murder scene with multiple participants all by himself. We were all hysterical by the time he got back on the bus. It was 90 minutes of fun and history mixed together. 

We took a day to clean the coach and for me to attend a hybrid Board Meeting at Jojoba Hills. We took off down the road this morning in the face of storm warning, wind and under 5 hours later with fuel and lunch we settled in to a lovely Boondockers Welcome site with a lovely gravel pad and electricity. They are friendly people, as we would expect, The pad is alongside a barn. Since there is a threat of rain we disconnected the car and backed it into the site and then backed the coach up to it so I could reconnect it to be ready in the morning to roll without going out in the rain to set it up.

This travel style is limiting our time to follow the news. While we are rolling we mostly are listening to audio books or other favorite shows. Of course once we stop we do catchup and morning is usually NPR and NYTimes with breakfast. 


Several days have passed. We moved on to Lake Haven Retreat, outside Indianapolis where we met Terry Lovenheim and went out to dinner. We had a long pleasant talk over dinner and and returned to the coach to prepare for another travel day.

This day found us at Alton RV outside Columbus OH. We have stayed at this park in the past to visit with Lee Cherney. Just a reminder, Lee was at TBK Sunday School with Carol and me going back to 1st or 2nd grade. Later we ended up at Brown together where we were roomates for 2 years, one year in the dorms and senior year in an apartment with Jon Kerner of blessed Memory. We have stayed in touch all these years. 

Although we were within 8 hours of Rochester we decided not to rush back yet. We are spending two nights in Erie PA KOA before completing our exporations with the aforementioned trip to tour Fallingwater and Kentucky Knob, two Frank Lloyd Wright homes. After those tours we expect to take two days to get back to Rochester. This should land us in the apartment on Saturday April 27. 

That will terminate our immediate travels in the motorhome and leave us two trips in the car to Boston and to Providence two weeks apart with a graduation in Rochester in the middle of the sandwich. 

The coach has been running fine so far and Carol has been taking her two hour shifts with aplomb. The audio books and other entertainments help the miles fly by.

Watch for posts from family travels coming soon.

Things Forgotten

After the obvious notion that our age has slowed us down just a bit and we don’t have to be “doing” every minute of the day comes the rest of the stuff.

As I was making plans with a friend for a get together in Cleveland, he reminded me that Pesach (Passover) was that night – oops. I guess we will be enjoying that in a campground someplace. Someplace then became a question.  I had forgotten that we were entering the Northeast a land where camping is very seasonal and the season starts either April 15 or May 1. Most of the places near Cleveland that I tried do not open until May 1. The one that is opening April 15 has only 7 sites and is fully booked. 

There is no reason to stop in Cleveland if our friends are not available so we will move on to Erie PA. I don’t think we have ever stopped there. It is a KOA, not our preferred venue, but mid week while schools are open it seems safe. This puts us within a short day to Rochester if we choose to do that. 

After some more working with my trip planing software and the phone I have gotten way ahead of myself and have booked almost all the stops we need for the rest of the trip. I just added a side trip to Fallingwater, the FLWright house. Its only 176 miles out of the way. We have promised ourselves a stop there many times but never had the time. We just made the time.

Another thing I forgot. This planning takes time, especially booking reservations, something we seldom have done. Also I needed to debug the windshield and front of the coach after 2,000 of driving. 

Tomorrow We will join a bunch of Kansas City Cornellians for a Gangsta Tour of Kansas City. Our friends, the Lustigs, are both Cornellians and they invited us. Another thing I forgot, Look up Brown Clubs as we travel.

US 54 a New Addiction

If you have read these messages you know we get “into” highways, that’s US highways, not interstates. As we left Las Cruces on US 70 we eventually transitioned to US 54. Typically US highways run N/S or E/W For some reason when they laid out US 54 which is designated E/W (even number) they actually ran it NE from Las Cruces, that is on a diagonal. 

It was fun as we traveled across NM on that diagonal for 3 nights. The road traversed many grades as we climbed to the High Plains.  Then today we crossed from NM to TX and then on into OK across the Panhandle to KS where we spent the night at Mid-America Air Museum, our third time stopping there. Today we continued on US 54 which eventually merged with US 400 into Wichita KS. Tomorrow we will bid farewell to US 54 and get on I 35 to KC. I could post a boo to taking the Interstate,  but there really is no better route to get us there for a get together with Dianne and Marty, friends from sometime in the 70’s 

Even more than our addiction to highways is our addiction to keeping up with friends from forever ago. We will stop to see a college roomate, Lee, who we actually have known almost as long as we have known each other (first grade) and a friend from Rochester who moved away to FL many years ago and recently moved to Cleveland so we can visit. Visits in FL required a trip to a state we choose not to enter. That has nothing to do with politics!!! It is flat, crowded and humid.

I’ll report on highways and friends as we go.

Merrily we Roll Along

The coach was in and out of the shop in about 4 hours. We hit the road – again. As we began the long climb the engine temperature stayed right where we hoped and we crested the grade to Chiriaco Summit where we paused for lunch. With a fuel stop in Quartzsite we pulled into our favorite piece of desert, Hi Jolly, where we set up for the night.  In the morning it was a simple matter to pull in the slides, retract the levelers and keep on moving.

Mid afternoon we stopped at South Forty RV Ranch and did nothing but a bit of shopping while we took a down time. Other than missing our Tucson friends we were back on the schedule I had laid out months ago. The next day brought us into Las Cruces NM and Hacienda RV Ranch which is our new go to place in Las Cruces since Siesta has closed to short term stays. Assorted reactions to medicines resulted in our staying in Friday night with Miriam DG who had flown in from Los Angeles. Saturday was not very Shabbat like as we crammed in some touring of the area so Miriam could get an idea of what Las Cruces is like. 

Sunday, after a brief family Zoom and lunch with Leorah and Stu we headed out for a Sefardi concert at Temple Beth El. We met up with Leora and Stu again at the Temple. We had decided to double down on music so as 6 PM approached we ventured into Double Eagle Restaurant on Mesilla Square for a perfomrance of Cammerata Del Sol  string quartet founded in part by their daughter Amalia who is a splendid violinist. We said goodbye to Leorah and to Amalia who is off to a program in Israel this summer. 

We drove back to the coach where Miriam packed up almost everything in preparation for a shuttle pickup at 7 AM. Later that morning we rolled out for what is planned to be the shortest day of the trip, 90 mile to Tularosa Winery, a Harvest Host stop in Tularosa. I’ ll let you look it up on Google Maps for yourself if you are so inclined.

During the course of these days, Dan called a few times trying to catch us with a minute to talk. He finally caught us and got to tell his news, they have just bought 240 acres of good farm land on the otherside of the Blue Ridge from their current location. They have a long route to go to get from farm land to house and facilities for the horses. It will be fun for us to watch. I’m sure there will be a nice RV pad if we are still able to handle the coach.

Three days of nonstop rolling should have us in Kansas City area by the 12th. I am still attending various board meetings for Jojoba Hills as we keep rolling along. 

Getting Ready to Roll

We have been staying put in Jojoba Hills far too long. We got back from Rochester last October and haven’t left for travel beyond San Diego and Los Angeles since. I’ve been knocking the rust off my travel planning software and beating up other travel links to put together a busy period starting April 1 (actually March 31, but April 1 sounds much better).

Today I cleaned the shafts on the hydraulic leveling jacks to see if they would retract and extend. This operation is very necessary for us to be able to move as we learned when they failed as we tried to evacuate during the Highland Fire. While I was at it I retracted the hydraulic  slides for further proof of operation. All is good! Of course this entailed my getting down under the coach, flat on my side to do the work. The hard part was getting back up. 

I have booked a spot for routine service on the coach on April 1 – hence leaving on March 31 to be ready for early morning service work. If all goes well we will roll out of Redlands CA no later than April 2.  This should put us in Las Cruces NM on April 4 or 5. We will plan to stay a couple of nights to visit. Other stops we are considering are Kansas City if we can connect with the Lustigs, Indianapolis – if Terry is there, Columbus OH to see Lee an on to Rochester.

May is so full I am tired just thinking about it. We plan to be 4 nights in Boston around Cali Berbeco’s Bat Mitzvah. Then back to Rochester for Josh’s graduation from UR a Gala for the RPO on the 18th then on to Providence for my 60th Reunion from Brown.

Then back to Rochester where we will have some time to pack our bags for a 60th Anniversary trip to United Kingdom where we expect to be joined by our boys for the celebration at the Lygon Arms in Broadway, just up the road from Stratford on Avon. We stayed there on our honeymoon and have been looking forward to a return for 60 years. When we return to Rochester we have no further plans, yet.

Not a Travel Post

I have not written and posted a travel post for some time. We have not left Jojoba Hills other than our trip to Salt Lake City since we returned last Fall.  My activities have been almost entirely involved with the operations of Jojoba Hills SKP Resort as its president. This is boring to most people and frankly not pertinent to being “On the Move”.

I have been following the news rather more closely than some might consider healthy. In particular the news from Israel and the surrounding areas. Some personal background, Carol and I attended a Reform Synagogue from Kindergarten on.  That is where we met. Rather unusual for the Reform Movement in the 40’s and 50’s Temple B’rith Kodesh (hereafter TBK) was strongly Zionist as were my parents. Carol and I have visited Israel many times since our first in 1971. I am convinced that regardless of the current politics there the Jewish world needs a Jewish place to retreat to the next time the world community agrees to let some monster try to eliminate us once again.

In 1948, after the United Nations agreed to create a two state solution, the Arab world went to war to prevent the creation of the State of Israel. Somehow Israel prevailed over the massive war power of the Arabs and created the state. The Arab world was left with 700,000 refugees, most of whom were gathered into Refugee Camps and UNWRA (United Nations Works and Relief Agency for Palestine Refugees) was created to care for those refugees. In my years running various organizations I have learned one major thing, the first job of any organization leader is to ensure the survival of the organization. If the refugees were permitted to create new lives in new lands among their Arab brethren, there would be no need for UNWRA. There would not now be over 5 million Palestinians  with a large portion of them living in Refugee Camps that date back to 1948. 

Where else in the world have refugees been held in camps  for so long? Why is the UN continuing to govern and supply these camps with funds from the US Government and Western Europe. The Arab world apparently wants them to be as a force to remind the rest of the world that Israel is the bad guy. To be a festering wound. And most of all so that UNWRA has a reason to exist to live off the funds provided by the US and Western Europe. 

If the resources used to maintain these camps had been used to provide resettlement, there would be Palestinian Arabs living fruitful lives throughout the area. If the assets and intellectual resources Hamas has put into building massive fortifications and a major war machine had been put into developing Gaza into anything else it could be a vibrant community with tourism and other industries feeding the people. 

I have empathy for the people of Gaza, they needed to turn on Hamas and take over the government for their own benefit. I fear it is way too late for that. 

I am not addressing Israel’s position. If you are bullied from all sides for 70 years your response is likely to be seen as inappropriate.

Travel Interruptus

We never made it out of Rochester! Storms along the East Coast disrupted our flight plans and we were not prepared to deal with the ensuing chaos. It became clear we would not be able to join our planned river cruise any time soon. United offered us a flight to DC the next day with no onward connection to Nice, so we elected to stay in Rochester. That is where we are now. 

We have spent time with our grandson and will get to see some people here sooner than we had planned. This is not the first time in our travels that this has happened. The East Coast weather can wreak havoc on long planned flight schedules.

I got to participate in our Coop Board Meeting today, on Zoom. 

I’ll plan to post our activities a bit more often than I might have from France.

Traveling, Again

It has been a confusing few days. We flew to Rochester leaving GeeWhiz in California and almost immediately drove to Hamilton, ON for Aunt Dorothy’s 100th birthday. While we were staying at Marilyn Foreman’s place (cousin) I started looking at the calendar for our trip to France OOOPS! We are flying out of Rochester on Monday not Tuesday as I thought all along. We have time and we have adjusted and we will be ready with everything, including far too many medications for youngsters like us. 

Aunt Dorothy has never liked to celebrate her birthday, she contends it is bad luck. My comment when she said that was what would bad luck look like, a 110th birthday party? The families were the Caplans, her parents side and many of the cousins; the Cohen’s her husband’s (Uncle Mel) and friends from the building where she has lived for many years. The families are so big and spread out that it turned out the caterer is a cousin. Dorothy, aka Dodo to the American family, enjoyed her party as much as everyone else. 

We drove back to Rochester determined to avoid the Thruway. On the way to Hamilton we let the GPS decide and we drove a route neither Carol nor I remember taking. For those who know western NY we took 31 which is a fairly direct route so long as you want to pass through every town between here and there. We returned taking 104 which is similar but a bit further north. Both are far more interesting than any Interstate which is clearly faster and more direct. I think it may have cost us 15 minutes on a 2 1/2 hour drive. The only reason I think we never took 31 is because it never occurred to us. 

I am not sure how I will be able to post on this trip. My tablet does not permit me to use the email group I am using to send this out. You have the option of figuring out how to subscribe so WordPress will notify you when I post, or just keeping an eye on Facebook where I will post links to this blog and maybe even the entire output. I know, some of us hate FB and won’t ever open it, I don’t blame you, but for some purposes it really is the best way to share. Of course the grandkids almost never use it anymore. 

After the trip I will send out links to anything I might have had to say.